Comments on: How Do Men Talk to Other Men about Female Troubles?

By: hoho

hoho — Wed, 09 Feb 2011 09:38:49 +0000

what do men talk about when they juz meet each other??????????????

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Brilliant blogs | Maree Anderson | Author — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 07:17:55 +0000

[...] How Do Men Talk to Other Men About Female Troubles? In this first installment of Wayne Wednesday, Wayne Levine, director of the West Coast Men’s Center in Agoura Hills, CA, discusses the workings of the male mind. [...]

By: Wayne

Wayne — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 01:07:37 +0000

I’ve added a photo. Let’s see if shows up.

By: Nancy

Nancy — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 15:51:18 +0000

What’s the old saying? If two people agree on everything, one of them is unnecessary

Thanks for the insights, Wayne.

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By: Wayne

Wayne — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 18:10:43 +0000

Nice work. My suggestion to women in a similar position: when you hear the request, just don’t move. When he gets frustrated enough, he come to you and then you can let him know–calmly and before you go nuts–the “way it is.” When it’s important enough to us, we catch on…eventually.

By: Kathy Crouch

Kathy Crouch — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 18:03:41 +0000

I’ve finally gotten my husband of 38 years to tell me whathe wants me to do intead of just hollering come here. I told him you’re no longer in the army and I’m not your soldier to order around-lol. But the thing that would drive me nuts was the come here thing without telling me what he wanted. I’m like tell me you need me to do this or that and can I help you with it. Drove me nuts drop whatever you are doing and come here and then find out he only had a simple question.

By: Tracey Devlyn

Tracey Devlyn — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 18:02:34 +0000

LOL – steal away!

By: Wayne

Wayne — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 16:24:46 +0000

The frustration doesn’t go away. What gets repressed, gets expressed. He’ll drink, shut down, act out with other women, get sick, depressed. He’ll piss off your mutual friends. Road rage. But taking it out on the girlfriend/wife is certainly the most convenient method of temporary elimination. But it’s only temporary.

By: Wayne

Wayne — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 16:20:14 +0000

A lot of us were raised by women. But our experiences are varied. The healthy moms taught us about love, compassion and the value of sharing our feelings. Other moms taught us fear, resentment and how to cut off from others when we don’t like what we’re getting. The trap for men who were raised to share their feelings is that they were often taught to see the world through female eyes and to solve their problems the way women would solve their problems. Men aren’t women. We naturally approach things differently. Eventually, we find that we need something more to successfully solve our issues. We need masculine input and the support and validation to trust our guts, our instincts that might have been undeveloped or quashed over the years