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C’mon, Let’s Celebrate! with Donna Cummings

Donna Cummings and I have had many virtual celebrations – most involving make-believe brownies and some sort of alcoholic beverage. From births and birthdays to actually getting out of bed and getting dressed for the day, there’s millions of reasons to celebrate. And one of the best? Finishing your book. Woot! Party! Brownies!

Author Donna Cummings

There are lots of holidays in the next few weeks, and it’s easy to get caught up in the maelstrom of preparing for them–to the point that we forget the goal of all of that manic behavior: celebrating.

The very same thing happens with writing. There’s a zillion things to accomplish before a story can be published. There’s writing, of course, and NOT writing (which eats up a lot of time, surprisingly). There’s also fretting about writing and fretting about NOT writing. Don’t forget editing, and fretting about if you can implement the editor’s suggestions without the delete key breaking off. Oh, and don’t forget marketing and social media and still more books to write. . .

Hmm, I didn’t notice any room in that schedule for celebrating our accomplishments. Why is that?

Maybe we’re too focused on the work aspect. Or maybe we view celebrating as some sort of guilty pleasure. We downplay our successes if they’re not the big ones that can be emblazoned on a book cover.

There could possibly be some superstition involved. A little pat on the back could jinx us. The hubris of declaring “good job, you!” has the potential of forever freezing our arm with elbow pointing skyward, all because we sought to congratulate ourselves for a brief instant.

13239984_10204888697372296_4287184039549627580_n1 It’s funny how we’re always willing to celebrate others’ achievements. We’ll hoist a brownie or two when our friends have a joyous occasion in their lives. We don’t think twice about singing Happy Birthday in a restaurant to complete strangers.

It’s time we do the same for ourselves, and I’ve got a few reasons why you should feel good about doing it, with 0% guilt:

Celebrating is the Epilogue of the Writing Process

Writing “The End” is an exhilarating moment, and with good reason. It’s the author’s version of a happily-ever-after.

But we often miss the opportunity to revel in this HEA moment–probably because we’re so relieved to discover the finish line was NOT made of disappearing ink. (We had good reason to think that. Seriously.)

If you think of the writing process as a mirror of a story arc, celebrating is the epilogue. This is when everything is sparkly and shiny and everyone is happy beyond measure. The tumult and aggravations that occurred before this point have faded into oblivion.

All is calm, all is bright.

Now is the time to congratulate yourself. Heck, it’s time to reward yourself. It doesn’t have to involve a case of champagne and a truckload of brownies. (Although if that IS how you’re celebrating, send me an invite. Stat.)

Your festivities might include binge-watching a show you missed while racing to get your book finished. Maybe it’s tweeting up a storm because you had to miss all that fun stuff when deadlines were looming.

The important thing is to set aside some time to recognize, and revel in, your accomplishment. If you think of it as a vital element of the writing process, you’ll be eager to celebrate each time you finish a book. You’ll also realize. . .

Celebrating Is Valuable Writer Self-Care

C'mon, Let's Celebrate! with Donna CummingsAfter the initial excitement of diving into that irresistible new story idea, it isn’t long before you comprehend that writing is actually about 56% voodoo and 44% trying to figure out what the heck to do with the random scenes and stray bits of dialogue your brain coughs up. Transforming this ragtag assortment of stuff into a coherent and compelling narrative requires a lot of mental stamina. (It only looks like sitting and staring out the window for hours on end.)

When we’re consumed with a story, it’s easy to forget our beleaguered brain needs essentials like food and water, rest and exercise. Our “self-care” consists of sloshing more coffee into the cup and grabbing the nearest food-esque item before plopping back down in front of the keyboard for another writing marathon.

Then, when we’ve finally reached that nirvana known as “The End”, how do we celebrate? By falling to the floor in a dead faint, choking on the dust bunnies that have staged a coup while we were blind to their nefarious plots.

Talk about a crappy party! We deserve more. We finished a book! It’s like opening a birthday card expecting to see money, but getting a coupon for socks instead.

So treat yourself, and treat yourself well. If you haven’t been out of the house for days, take a walk. Maybe the seasons have changed since your last outing. Maybe your neighbors have. Order that fancy schmancy coffee drink you always talk yourself out of. Get lunch that isn’t in a bag or from the freezer. Take a nap or sleep in. It’s not indulgence. It’s giving your brain a chance to recharge so it’s ready for the next pre-celebratory experience (AKA writing).

In short, think of a gift you would give your BFF to let them know now proud you are of their accomplishment—and give that to you. Because, when it comes down to it. . .

You Deserve to Celebrate

And not just once in a while, but every day. I know, your guilt meter is probably clanging loudly, but think back to how hard it was to do something for the first time, and then how it got a little easier each time after that. We can learn how to enjoy celebrations the same way.

Start out small, even if it’s just a grin or a silent high five at hitting the word count for the day. Work up to bigger things. It’ll be second nature in no time. You’ll feel “celebration deficient” without it.

Still not convinced? Then think of celebrating as a form of encouragement, the ole “carrot” in the carrot-and-stick equation (but make mine crème brulee, okay?) Knowing there’s a treat for us at the end of the tough parts is a great motivator.

Okay, time to put on our party hats. The virtual barista and bartender should be here soon. While we’re waiting, feel free to share the celebratory things you’re planning! I can’t wait to celebrate with you.

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What do YOU do to celebrate the end of a book? Either reader or writing it? Do tell…

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Bio: I have worked as an attorney, winery tasting room manager, and retail business owner, but nothing beats the thrill of writing humorously-ever-after romances.

I reside in New England, although I fantasize about spending the rest of my days in a tropical locale, wearing flip flops year-round, or in Regency London, scandalizing the ton.

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11 Responses to “C’mon, Let’s Celebrate! with Donna Cummings”

  1. Great post, Donna. I am so bad at self-care and celebrating, but this week I made myself take a day off from the next deadlines and review/retailer stalking to treat myself to some new things. And I took my mum and sister out to lunch. It was really nice! Shock! LOL.

    Posted by Nicola Davidson | October 21, 2016, 1:15 am
    • Thanks, Nicola! And it sounds like you’re a PRO at celebrating. We’ll have to put you in charge for future events. 🙂

      I’m going to put my advice into action this weekend — hopefully a couple days of celebrating doesn’t require a couple days of recovery. LOL

      Posted by Donna Cummings | October 21, 2016, 5:03 am
  2. Carrie, we’ve had a lot of virtual celebrations, haven’t we? Here’s to having a few in-person ones in the future. *raises a brownie in salute* Talk about epic. 🙂

    Posted by Donna Cummings | October 21, 2016, 5:05 am
    • lol….it would definitely be epic. As in, we’d need someone to post bail money. =)

      I don’t have an after-writing celebratory routine ..but I do love to finish a book. If it’s a print one, when I’ve finished (ok, usually the next morning – I read in bed!) The book goes on the shelf if it’s a good one, or given away if it’s meh. Same procedure generally for a Kindle book.

      The REALLY good books I love immediately get given to my mother…lol…she reads as much if not more than I do.

      Great having you here Donna!!

      carrie

      Posted by Carrie Peters | October 21, 2016, 9:20 am
      • I love being here, Carrie. And I’m already saving my bail money, just in case. LOL

        I rarely read print books anymore, but it’s hard for me to part with them. Luckily I can’t really tell how many ebooks I have. Which may be one more reason I love my Nook. It makes me think there’s always room for just one more!

        Posted by Donna Cummings | October 21, 2016, 12:48 pm
  3. Usually when I finish a book I dive into everything that I’ve left undone in my other job. I don’t actually mind that — it uses another part of my brain — but it’s not exactly celebration. 🙁

    I’ll take the coupon for socks. I love socks. Going out and buying socks is actually an OK celebration for me.

    But no, OK, isn’t good enough. Can’t eat brownies, though, because I’m on a low-carb diet. Um… Maybe I’ll plan a trip to Rome.

    Or maybe, to be realistic (sigh), a lunch or dinner with author friends. And open my brain for some more of that great author voodoo.

    Posted by Barbara Monajem | October 21, 2016, 9:33 am
    • Barbara, I’m the same way with diving into all the undone stuff that’s accumulated. Ugh. And yeah, socks are good — it’s so hard for me to find two that actually match. LOL I’m on the low-carb thing too, so maybe if we eat half a brownie. . .

      I do like your idea for a trip to Rome though. Road trip! 🙂

      Posted by Donna Cummings | October 21, 2016, 12:50 pm
  4. Celebrating is good. God told his people [us] to celebrate often. We don’t even have to wait until the end of the book for small celebrations. We can celebrate that ti’s half done. Or the first draft is done. Or it’s been sent off to a professional editor. Celebrating little milestones [and big ones] is a way to pt ourselves on the back and say, “Good job. Keep it up.” So let’s hoist a brownie [or in my case, some M&Ms…love them] and say Yay! It will energize us for the next step.

    Posted by Diana Holvik | October 21, 2016, 9:51 am
    • Diana, I agree that we shouldn’t wait until the end of the book. There are tons of milestones that should be celebrated — and knowing there’s another one to celebrate down the road will definitely keep us motivated. 🙂 I’ll take a handful of those M&Ms! Those are another of my faves.

      Posted by Donna Cummings | October 21, 2016, 12:52 pm
  5. I think every time you hit a word count milestone it should be worthy of SOME kind of celebration. Maybe not champagne and brownies, but Skittles maybe, or at least a Twizzler or two.

    I seem to be on a fretting treadmill lately, so thanks very much for the reminder to celebrate!

    Posted by Becke Martin Davis | October 21, 2016, 2:43 pm
    • Oooh, a fretting treadmill — I have one of those too! I agree that hitting a word count milestone should have some kind of celebratory (candy) reward. Especially on those days when it feels like the word count is going backwards. LOL

      Posted by Donna Cummings | October 21, 2016, 3:21 pm

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