Romance University is proud to contribute again this year to New York Times Bestselling author Brenda Novak’s amazing online auction for diabetes research. Last year, Brenda and her dedicated team of volunteers and donors raised $270,611 for the cause. Compare that figure to the auction’s first year–$34,982–and you can’t help but be in awe at what a troop of folks can do when they band together.

Want to know how you can help Brenda in her fight against diabetes? First check out her web site http://brendanovak.auctionanything.com/. You’ll find an array of gift baskets, autographed books, agent and editor manuscript evaluations, beautiful trinkets, and weekend vacations. Some items are available for only one day, but the majority can be bid on throughout the auction. It’s super easy to register and place bids. And a lot of fun — the bidding part, at least! The auction begins on May 1 and wraps up on May 31.

Romance University is donating a Crafting Your Career basket this year.

Inside, you’ll find:

• A European lapdesk
• A beautiful hand-crafted water hyacinth basket
• A Knock-Knock Stickies set
• Three (3) craft books
  • Manuscript Makeover by Elizabeth Lyon (Kelsey’s fave!)
  • Scene and Structure by Jack M. Bickham (Adrienne’s fave!)
  • The Fire in Fiction by Donald Maass (Tracey’s fave!)
• A Romance University notepad and bookmark
• A 4 GB SanDisk with RU Faculty’s favorite writing templates installed

Help Brenda meet her one million dollar goal by joining in on the fun and supporting this fabulous cause. One click on the link above and you’ll be transported to an awe-inspiring site for writers and readers that is also helping save lives.

Good morning and welcome to Anatomy of the FEMALE Mind.  Yep, we’ve gone rogue again, but we had good reason.  With it being our anniversary week, we thought it would be appropriate to invite our first Visiting Professor back to help us kick off another year.

Let’s give a big RU welcome to bestselling author Brenda Novak.

Boundaries

 I’ve never been good at setting boundaries. “Pleasers” usually aren’t. They are trained—or programmed from the beginning, maybe—to give others what they want and expect, no matter how difficult or time-consuming. So I spent a good portion of my life living for the praise of my parents, my teachers, my siblings, my husband, even my children.

And then something happened. I started to write romance and that evoked some…gasp… disapproval from certain people, several of which were very close to me.

As silly as it may sound to those who have always been assertive, weathering that disapproval without succumbing to the pressure to quit was a difficult exercise for me. It required a lot of soul-searching. But I’m glad for the challenge it presented. I feel as if it was necessary to my growth as a person. I finally learned how to break out of that childish “pleaser” mold, if only a little, and do what I thought I should be doing regardless of whether anyone else agreed with it or not. Once I took a stand, I felt empowered. It was the first time I had ever really set any boundaries, the first time I put those in my life on notice that I was going to live according to the dictates of my own conscience.

 I’ve now been published for eleven years and have been fortunate enough to hit The New York Times. I love what I do and am far more confident in it than I was during

 those early years. And yet…I am faced with another challenge regarding boundaries. Slowly but surely, as I’ve built my career, I’ve lost control of my time. I have a steady stream of people–wonderful people so this is nothing against them–writing to ask if I’ll tell them how to get published, read their manuscript, critique their query letter, introduce them to my agent/editor, donate to their cause, visit their blog, meet their daughter/wife/mother, speak at their event, etc. The attention is exciting. So are all the opportunities. And I sometimes need favors myself, right? Look at all the people who donate to my diabetes auction! I owe thousands!

 But agreeing to do it ALL means there’s no time for my family, no time for my writing, no time for my fundraising, no time to replenish the well from which I create my stories.

So how do I reclaim my life while still doing all I can to help others and take advantage of the great opportunities that come my way? How do I achieve the right balance? Is it possible to set boundaries without offending?

Whether it is or not, I fear saving my sanity will mean using a word I’ve never felt comfortable with—No.

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RU Crew, how do you set boundaries in your own life?  We’d love to hear from you.

A special thanks to Brenda Novak for being with us today. After all, she could have chosen now to say no and we are so glad she didn’t. Please join us tomorrow when Jeannie Ruesch of Will Design for Chocolate will offer advice on what unpubbed writers need to establish a web presence and why they need it.
 

Please take a moment to read the following note from Brenda regarding her annual auction to benefit diabetes research. This is a wonderful event and the auction items are amazing (be sure to check out the RU basket.).  Once again, here’s Brenda:

I started this fundraiser in 2005 and have made it an annual event in an attempt to help my thirteen-year-old son (diagnosed at 5) and the many, many others who struggle with diabetes. The need is there. Anyone who lives with a diabetic will tell you about the constant fingertip pricks, the shots, the pump insertions, the danger that comes with blood sugars that are too high or too low or swinging wildly from one side to the other. It’s almost impossible to avoid the fluctuations, no matter how hard you try. But you rarely hear about that, or about the tragic side affects. Diabetes affects every part of the body—the heart, the liver, the kidneys, the skin, the nerves, the eyes, everything. But thanks to my many, many generous donors–and shoppers–we’re doing what we can to help!

Last year we managed to raise over $280,000, which brings us to over three-quarters of a million so far. In 2010, we should break the $1 million mark! Judging by the increase in donations and web traffic, I think we’ll get there. Not only do I offer fabulous items like original paintings, handmade quilts, trips and stays and autographed books and baskets from Big Name authors, I offer fabulous opportunities for readers and writers. How would you like to have lunch with one of your favorite authors—authors like Barry Eisler, Diana Gabaldon, Linda Howard, Beverly Barton or Catherine Coulter? John Lescroart and Christine Feehan are offering you an opportunity to name a character in one of their novels. Jane Porter is offering a fabulous trip to Hawaii. Heather Graham has donated a trip to New Orleans, which includes her Writers For New Orleans Conference. Nora Roberts is offering a stay at her inn. Hank has donated a whole category of wonderful items, including a visit to your book club. And Anna DeStefano has put up a whole category of Coach purses. For aspiring writers, we have more agent and editor evaluations and author critiques than ever before. There are too many items to list here, so hop over and check it out.

For those of you who have never participated in an online auction, don’t worry–it’s easy. This auction runs just like E-Bay. You shop the entire month of May (there are also one-day auctions so be sure to check the schedule), bid on whatever you like and pay for what you win via  credit card or Paypal when it’s all over, at which point it will be shipped to you (in most cases, the shipping is free). The person who places the highest number of bids each week will be awarded a fabulous prize (the first week it’s an iPad as well as an Advanced Reading Copy of my new book, WHITE HEAT, due out July 27^th). There will also be lots of other prizes given away via random drawings.

And we have something new this year for aspiring writers. It’s a writing contest that will be judged by New York Times Bestselling Authors. The winner will receive a 6-month mentoring package from me and guaranteed reads from my agent and editor. One other thing I should mention. To help promote the auction, I’m currently holding a drawing for a fabulous Trip for 2 to Curacao. This trip includes airfare and hotel stay at the Hyatt Regency. To enter, visit brendanovak.com and click on the Contest link.

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 Brenda’s bio: New York Times and USA Today Bestselling Author Brenda Novak has three novels coming out this summer—WHITE HEAT, BODY HEAT & KILLER HEAT. She also runs an annual on-line auction for diabetes research every May at www.brendanovak.com. To date, she’s raised over $770,000 and is hoping to break $1 million this year. Brenda considers herself lucky to be a mother of five and married to the love of her life.  

Hello, everyone!

Romance University celebrates its first anniversary with an entire week of fun and information! Put on your party hat and bring your tooting horn – come celebrate with us and our great line-up!

Mon, 5/17 – Crafting Your Career: Author L.A. Banks and Kimani Press’ Executive Editor Glenda Howard dig deep into the multi-cultural romance sub-genre. Stop by to get their take on makes a hot romance in this growing sub-genre.

Tues, 5/18 – Happy Anniversary Romance University!!! Carrie Spencer puts Kelsey Browning, Adrienne Giordano and Tracey Devlyn in the hot seat during this revealing look at the brains behind Romance University as they celebrate their first anniversary.

Wed, 5/19 – Anatomy of the Male Mind: Bestselling author Brenda Novak takes a look at how an author can separate his/her public and private life.

Thurs, 5/20 –  Special Feature: Jeannie Ruesch of Will Design for Chocolate kicks off a series of posts on building a web presence and will offer advice on what unpubbed writers need, why they need it and what to focus on.

Fri, 5/21 – Chaos Theory of Writing: Red Sage Managing Editor Theresa Stevens responds to a reader’s call for help about how to effectively setup an eavesdropping scene. Don’t miss the answer!

All Romance University lectures are generously provided by our Visiting Professors. RU is a tuition-free zone!

Best regards,

Kelsey Browning, Adrienne Giordano, Tracey Devlyn and Carrie Spencer

PS  - Want RU’s weekly lecture schedule in a cool new email format straight to your in-box? Sign up on RU’s homepage or any of the lecture posts!

Our wonderful visiting professor, Brenda Novak, is a finalist in the Single Title Romantic Mystery/Suspense Published category of the 2009 Daphne du Maurier Award for Excellence. Brenda, congratulations from all of us at RU! 

For those of you unaware, some items on Brenda’s auction (www.BrendaNovak.com) close tonight so be sure to place your bids. Romance University donated an amazing “Sampling the World” gift basket to the auction. Check it out – http://tiny.cc/VJrTa

Good morning and welcome to Crafting Your Career. We are thrilled to have NY Times bestselling author Brenda Novak as our visiting professor today. Brenda has three novels coming out this summer-THE PERFECT COUPLE, THE PERFECT LIAR and THE PERFECT MURDER, all part of her popular Last Stand Series. She also runs an annual on-line auction for diabetes research every May at www.brendanovak.com. To date, she’s raised over $500,000. Brenda considers herself lucky to be a mother of five and married to the love of her life.

The thing that is not listed in Brenda’s bio is how big and generous her heart is. As an added bonus for us, Brenda is giving away a Brenda Novak tote bag filled with goodies and a $50 gift certificate to her online auction for diabetes research. Just post a comment or question for Brenda and your name will be included in the drawing.

Learn more about the auction in her post and bid often because she has great items on the list.

Class is now in session.

Adrienne: What strategies did you use to help you become a NYT bestselling author?  Do you have a sense of what tipped the scale? Marketing? Writing great books? Diabetes auction? Website?  Or did all these things coincide at the right moment?

Brenda: I think the strategy that served me best was to take advantage of every opportunity that came my way. These days it often takes more than being a great writer to get ahead. There are a lot of great writers out there. You also have to be a good businessperson. So I’ve always tried to do that–to be a “complete package.” I believe success in writing starts with a solid book, of course. You have to have a great product to sell or nothing you do will bring people back to your product if they’ve tried it and they don’t like it–but marketing can make a difference if you have that foundation in place. I try to do plenty of speaking engagements, maintain an interactive and appealing web site, run fun contests, making myself available to fans as much as possible. All these things drip into the bucket of success, I think plain old luck plays a part, too. <g>

Adrienne: How did you keep yourself motivated while trying to get published?  Did you have an agent prior to being published?

Brenda: I did have an agent. I kept motivated by having my expectations in the right place. I didn’t expect to become an overnight sensation, so I wasn’t disappointed when it didn’t happen that way. I expected it to be a long journey, sometimes painstaking, and filled with disappointment. But I ultimately believed in myself, and I think that has to be there. You have to believe in yourself or no one else will believe in you. Fortunately, I did have an agent for my first sale. I was lucky enough to final in the Golden Heart at the same time an agent was expressing interest, and I think that sort of solidified the deal. She took me on and sold that first manuscript to HarperCollins. It’s the only historical romance I’ve had published because I was orphaned before it ever came out, but I still love that book. LOL.

Adrienne: How long were you writing before you were published?  How many books did you write before you hit the NYT list?

Brenda: It took me five years to teach myself the craft of writing and to finish my first manuscript. I had five little kids and couldn’t devote a lot of time to it back then. Now it’s a full-time job for me.

I hit the list with my 8th single title. I’d also written quite a few Superromances by the time I hit, but those aren’t really contenders for the list (they’re only out for three weeks, for one reason).

Adrienne: How did you get started with your auction?

Brenda: When my son was diagnosed with diabetes at five years old, I knew enough about the disease to understand that he would need constant care, and that his care would not be comfortable for him (lots of shots and finger pricks per day), but I was blown away by all the side effects that go hand in hand with this disease. I couldn’t bear the thought of watching my son go through what so many people with diabetes suffer and I really wanted to do something to make a difference. I had very little resources at the time (and all those kids, remember! LOL.) so it took me a couple of years to come up with just the thing–but then, one night I was at a silent auction for the elementary school and as I stood there looking around it hit me that I could do the same thing on my web site and invite my fans and publishing associates to get involved. Since then I’ve watched the auction double each year. Last year, we raised $252,300. And every year I grow more impressed with the people who come together to help me do this. They are amazing!

Adrienne: Tell us about your auction.

Brenda: Every year, in the month of May, I run my online auction for Diabetes Research. The auction takes a full year to plan and pull off, but it’s a labor of love—for all the people who, like my son, suffer from diabetes.

My very first auction ran in 2005 and was a huge success. Together with my generous donors, which included some of the biggest and brightest stars in publishing, I raised $34,982, which went directly to research. In year 2, we did even better and raised $62,705. In year three, we more than doubled at $141,700. Year four, we raised over $250,000. We’re definitely on a roll – each year gets bigger, brighter and better.

You can get involved – either by donating an item or by bidding when the auction starts in May.

This coming year, instead of waiting to add items in the months just before the auction, we’re going to start adding them as we receive them. So keep tabs on the 2009 Auction Spotlight page. We’ll keep you up to date with some of the best and most amazing donations you can bid on next year.

Each year, I offer a fabulous prize package to the person who places the most bids over all (even if that person doesn’t end up winning a single item). The 2008 winner received:

• A brand new Camcorder (retail value of at least $1,000),
• His/Her Name in My Next Book,
• An autographed copy of TRUST ME (6/08–the first of The Last Stand series)
• And Chocolate (lots of chocolate!)

Thank you to Brenda Novak for visiting today.

We’ll see everyone on Wednesday when author Milton Grasle will discuss women writing in the male POV.

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RU Ready?

This week, we’ll feature three special guests:

Monday, May 18 – Brenda Novak – Staying in for the Long Haul
Wednesday, May 20 – Milton Grasle – Women Writing Male POV
Friday, May 22 – Theresa Stevens – Got Backstory?

Stop by Monday to chat with Brenda, who will head the class with details about her road to becoming a New York Times bestselling author. Leave a comment and your name will be entered in a drawing to win a $50 gift certificate and a tote full of goodies.

WAIT! We have more good news.

Would you like to win a nifty new iPod Nano? Leave a comment during our launch week, May 18 – 22, and your name will be entered in a separate drawing. Courtesy of RU’s faculty members (Adrienne Giordano, Kelsey Browning and Tracey Devlyn).

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